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But how do you go from being just his girlfriend to become the woman he wants to marry? 7 Exciting Ways How To Get A Man To Marry You. So, you’ve been seeing and dating this guy for some time now.

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And he’s the kind of man you’d want to spend the rest of your life with. You can’t just help but think about your future together. Maybe having children together or traveling the world. Whatever that means to you… But before these things happen, though, you’re really hoping he proposes to you and ties the knot. So then, you’re wondering how to get a man to marry you. Or perhaps, what do guys look for in a woman they want to marry? Believe it or not, when you love someone, the general path you foresee is spending your life with them. And that’s marriage. But how do you go from being just his girlfriend to become the woman he wants to marry? What will make him want to spend the rest of his life with you? Sure, you don’t want to become who you are not or change yourself, but there are certainly tiny things you can do to create a more meaningful bond and make him want to commit – fast. Of course, there are a lot of things he needs to do for you, too. But if you’re looking for signs he will marry you someday – hopefully fast, there are ways to make a man want to marry you. 7 Secret Ways How To Get A Man To Marry You. 1. His Values And Beliefs Must Be Compatible With Yours. I know he’s cute. He makes you laugh. He’s handsome and tall. While there’s nothing wrong with any of these qualities, those aren’t what you’re really getting married to. These qualities aren’t really what moves the needle in any marriage relationship. Values and beliefs are. Sounds strange, right? In other words, you aren’t getting married to his handsome face or how well he speaks. You’re getting married to his values and beliefs about life. Beliefs and values are what control people’s behaviors and actions. Values are the things that matter to you—the things you place in high esteem. Your values about how you treat others, your view about family, finance, faith, and love, etc. If you are compatible on these things with him, it’ll be a lot easier for the two of you to be on the same page as you go through life together. Yeah, I know what you’re probably thinking… “Marriage can still work when two people have opposing values,” you’ll say. Yeah, but it’ll require a lot of compromise and cooperation. And if not properly handled, those issues may be a source of conflict later. Marriages rarely work out for couples with opposing values and beliefs. 2. Self-Love Isn’t Selfish. Love Yourself. This sounds like a cliché, right? But trust me, it’s true. The problem I see is that too many women spend a large part of their lives looking for love and happiness in the wrong places. And that’s because they never truly accept and love themselves –first. They have low self-esteem. And as a result, they have a hard time accepting themselves. If you’re looking for a man to marry you, you must first fall in love with your imperfections. Because if you don’t love yourself, you can’t love someone else. And once you’ve accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you. Your love for yourself is the only predictor of the love you can give and receive. You can’t give what you don’t have. To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness. And the only way to be happy with someone else is if you’re able to be happy without someone. If you’re unhappy with how you look and not satisfied with who you are, nothing and no one else will ever be enough. Not even a man. Nor will marriage. The ultimate hack in life is to be the person you search for. It’s the abundance of the love, joy, and happiness you feel and have for yourself that you can share with someone else. Ever noticed that people who feel safe and secure in themselves are more generous with their love and affection… While those who are insecure tend to hold back? People are afraid of being judged. And they gravitate toward those who accept them for who they are. When a man sees that you’re authentic and accept yourself for who you are, that’s when he knows you’ll accept him also. He knows you have abundance of love to give by the way you love and treat yourself. 3. Start With Group Hypnosis. This might sound a bit tricky, but it works. Especially if you want your man to invest in a long-term relationship with you. But what does “group hypnosis” even mean? Make him hang out with your married friends. When done long enough, we become like the people we hang around. We start acting like them, wanting and desiring the same things. This phenomenon is called “mirroring .” All you’ve got to do to get him to propose is to start hanging around with your friends who are either married or engaged. Spend time with them. But make sure these people are healthy couples. (Obviously, you want to steer clear of any chaotic marriage.) And the reason is… Most guys hold back from getting married simply because they haven’t got a lot of positive examples or good role models. The interesting part is that most women don’t either. But you’re different. You’ve got a strong inner drive towards a committed, long-term relationship. Men need to be exposed to healthy marriages very early. They need to see examples of strong relationships and how they work. If he’s terrified of commitment, this will kinda allay his fears about commitment. Because, the truth is, he wants to know if being with you will be worth it. And this needs to be nurtured even after you both say, “I do.” I’m not married yet, but I only hang around positive relationships. Especially couples committed to it and working on it – to make it work (not fail). I understood very early that… Modeling a behavior is 100 times stronger than telling someone to act differently. The most effective way to change is to focus not on what you want to achieve but on who you want to become. And you do that by hanging around people who are already successful in the areas you want to improve. See it as being in a peer group where they are constantly reminding you of how cool it is to work on your marriage. Now, think of how far that would go in making him love the idea of getting married to you. 4. Find Out Where He’s At In His Life. There was this pretty girl I met a couple of months back. We’ve been seeing each other for three months. The more we spent time together, the more I fell for her. The connection was deep. And the chemistry? very strong. But there was a problem… She wanted us to get married as fast as possible. I mean, less than six months after we met. And besides, I didn’t know her too well to want to commit that fast. I’m not scared of commitment. I just needed a little time for us to know ourselves. So, I told her I wasn’t ready to marry in six months. Besides, at the time, I was busy trying to build my online business from scratch. I needed to focus and give my business undivided attention. I was open enough to tell her where I was on my journey. I told her, “I like you – a lot. And I want to marry you. But you’ve got to give me some time. (A year)” She wasn’t patient enough. She just couldn’t wait for another six months. So, depending on your boyfriend’s career path, financial stability, family background, health, and many other factors, he will vary widely in his approach toward marriage. You’ve got to figure out where he is in his journey and decide if you can wait or not. Especially if you’re looking for how to get a man to propose in 6 months like my friend. You have to know where he is at in life before you stake all your hopes on him. And that brings me to this crucial point. 5. Don’t Be Desperate. Most women have this backward. Especially in their late 20s or 30s when they think their biological clock is ticking away…fast. They think the more they ask a man to define the relationship, the more he’d want to commit.













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