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Get some tips on post-divorce intimacy with someone new. Sex After Divorce – 7 Things No One Will Tell You (But I Will) From the moment you two separated, admit it…. you’ve been thinking about what it will be like to have sex with someone else.

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It’s one of the scariest and most exciting (most likely) aspects of divorce. Being intimate with someone again after losing a love that may even have been a lifetime love,wondering if it really is like “getting back on a bike again.” Obviously, having “new sex” is thrilling but not a reason to divorce (tell that to perpetual cheaters though),but you are getting a divorce. This means having new sex. Being naked with someone else. Intimate with someone else. Vulnerable with someone else . If you’ve wondered what it’s like to get back in the sexual saddle after divorce but are afraid to ask anyone the truth, don’t worry. I’m here to be honest. 1. You are probably going to feel like your whole body is on fire. New sex. It’s exciting. You may have been completely sexless in your marriage towards the end… or the whole time. Or maybe not. Don’t be surprised if you feel sort of like a cat in heat. Some of this is due to normal female hormonal changes,and a lot of it has to do with wanting to feel desired and sexy again. Wanting to feel wanted . This is normal. Just be careful. Don’t get involved with anyone you’re not ready to be involved with, and don’t have sex with anyone unless you’re ready and understand what the “sex means,” whether it’s a long-term commitment thing, a dating situation or casual. 2. You might feel like you cheated, but you didn’t. The first time you might almost feel as if you did something wrong. You might feel as if the experience was strange. It’s normal to feel some sense of guilt, but don’t be- really . You’re obviously not doing anything wrong, but it’s normal after you’ve been with someone for a long time to feel awkward when you’re with someone else for the first time. 3. You might set your standards too low, so be wary of that. In an attempt to feel wanted and sexy, (see point #1) you may be tempted to set your standards a little low in order to just feel alive ( i.e., have sex again). If you are the kind of woman who needs attachment or has low self-esteem, do not do this . It will only make you feel worse about yourself. The catch-22 here is that most likely if you have low self-esteem, you’ll be more susceptible to doing this. If however, you’re a real-life “Samantha” from Sex in the City and you just want to have sex and have the “heebie-jeebies” over commitment, just be safe and don’t worry about Mr. Perfect. I tend to advise caution on this. We have all heard about “Cougars”—how women are turning the paradigm on sexism by having younger men after divorce.And hey, there is nothing wrong with this, but be honest with yourself: Who are you? How do you feel about yourself? What do you really want? Are you ready for this, truly? Just don’t jump in too soon if you’re not ready. 4. You will be hit on by a lot of younger men for many reasons. Even if you divorce young, you are now “seasoned.” Younger men love this. They see you as exciting, exotic, interesting, and confident and not one of their peers who are most likely pressuring him into commitment or marriage. Young men will flock your front yard. Practically. If that’s your thing, go for it. If it’s not, just appreciate your sexual vitality as long as they are respectful. If they’re not, knee them in their juvenile testicles and walk on. 5. You may “over-value” the first time experience. Because it’s been so long since you’ve felt wanted…be wary of this and also, relish it. You’ll probably be like, “Wow! This sex was awesome. Yay!” And after being hurt, it may feel like the best sex of your lifetime, and that’s great.But be cautious with “high feelings.” What do I mean by that? I mean just be sure that you are keeping perspective and not getting caught up in someone unless you are ready and this person is really all that “amazing.” This person very well may be! Either way, pay attention to your vulnerability. 6. You may be tempted to have sex as revenge. This is not my way of being, but some women just long to go out there quickly after a divorce in order to “get back” at the love injuries they have had to endure during divorce. Hey—to each her own, but be careful that you are not acting or having sex out of anger. Anger only consumes the angry, not the person who made you angry. Remember that. 7. You may be tempted to go back to your ex’s of the past. And they will appear at your doorstep practically. I guarantee it. Every ex-boyfriend you had since preschool (yup, that’s right) will be on your Facebook page, email inbox and doorstep once they even smell your marriage is troubled. That’s how they work, it seems. Be careful of tango-ing with the past. Sure, your long-lost true love could be your high school sweetheart. I’ve seen that happen, but I’ve also seen a lot of people reunite with an ex and it be just as disastrous as the last time around. Is your former ex a good guy? Is he someone you really loved? Is he a scum looking for a vulnerable woman? Is he just looking to hook up? There are no clear-cut rules about life, love or anything. The only rule I’ll tell you to abide by is to only be intimate and loving with someone who is on the same page as you , respects you and wants what you want, whether it’s one night, ten nights or a lifetime. And no matter what you do, guard your heart—but this doesn’t mean keep it locked up . The most miserable people after divorce are the ones who refuse to try again. The second most miserable are those who are desperate. Recognize how worthy you are, (no pun intended here) and set your price high and watch who bids. Laura Lifshitz is a writer, comedienne, a former MTV VJ and Columbia University grad. Find her work in the NYTimes, Worthy, and other sites. Visit her at frommtvtomommy.com .

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Rebound Relationships: Am I His Rebound After Divorce? This reader has a question about rebound relationships and how to avoid getting into that kind of difficult emotional situation.

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Here’s my dating advice to help with understanding men and the rebound. 8 Tips to Recognize a Rebound Relationship. “Dear Dating Coach Ronnie, I’m dating a man who has only been divorced for four months divorced. But, he was separated for more than two years I’m not chasing him at all and let him contact me for the most part with a few exceptions. How do you know if you are in a rebound relationship? His actions say I’m not, but then again, I don’t know what actions would prove that I am a rebound. He tells me hasn’t been intimate with anyone for three years. So, I’m not sure if I’m the object of desire or a true potential long-term partner. We see each other on average two times a week for dates and we are not intimate every time. I’m used to listening to what men say and not watching their actions. He’s not the type to give me compliments, but his actions speak to the fact that he is interested. And he does keep scheduling dates. I want to make sure that I’m not filling the intimacy void and getting myself into a rebound situation. Any advice? This is a very tough question with no easy answer. But I’ll do my best to give you some signs of the rebound so you can make the decision that’s right for you. Therapists agree after a divorce or break up, everyone needs time to heal and the majority suggest a period of one year post divorce before getting seriously involved. People need time to clear their hearts and minds of a love gone wrong. Even if a man or woman has been separated for years, the final divorce still takes its toll. Here are XX signs to watch for to help you know you might be in a rebound relationship. 1.Needs Healing – If healing is not addressed, then people sometimes rush into the first possible relationship. They don’t take time to evaluate the situation. Many rebounders go for the same type of person again and again because that’s what feels familiar and comfortable. Sadly if your type of person didn’t work once, that type might just not be a good match and you’d be better off checking out a different sort of person. 2. Misses Being a Couple – Some men just miss being with a woman, from companionship, to sex, to a soft place to land. They crave female interaction and don’t want to go without. So they jump into a new relationship the first chance they get, without thinking things through. Too bad this might crop up after a few weeks or a few months when he breaks up with you and leaves you wondering what just happened. 3. Compares You to His Ex – Does the man you are seeing compare you to his ex? maybe there are ways in which you shine compared to her. Or there might be a few things he misses where you fall short. Either way, when a man frequently compares you to his ex, that’s a surefire sign he’s not over her yet. 4. Talks about Her Constantly – No matter what conversation you are having, you can count on your guy bring in up his ex. Whether he misses her, criticizes her or hates her, he’s still connected to her. And that means he’s not relationship ready to be with you. You are his rebound! 5. Wants You All the Time – Your relationship is very physical. Let’s just say he’s hot for you. But maybe you don’t have lengthy conversations or don’t seem to do other sorts of activities. You might start to wonder how much you have in common. When a relationship is very physical just after a man has a breakup or fresh from divorce, chances are very strong he’s working things out through you – an that girlfriend is a typical rebound relationship. 6. Friends Say it’s Too Soon – When a man’s friends tell you they think it’s too soon for him to be dating you – PAY ATTENTION. They KNOW him and know what’s off about him or not right. They are telling you he’s not ready so take this advice seriously. 7. Seems Too Eager – Even though he doesn’t know you that well, he’s eager to move things along. It might make you a bit suspicious or curious about his motives. There’s no reason to rush, unless he can’t stand to be alone and he needs you for to rebound from his divorce or breakup. 8. Prefers to Keep Things Casual – He misses feminine attention but wants it all on his terms which are casual at best. He isn’t ready for any sort of commitment. While most men aren’t at the start of dating, he is more open ended, loose about plans or vague. He’ll say things like let’s get together this weekend” but won’t make definite plans until the last minute, leaving you hanging. Can you say “Rebound”? From what you have mentioned, your guy doesn’t seem to fit int these patterns. He’s not in a rush, isn’t just interested in the physical, seems to be on an even keel and not needy. Hopefully, you aren’t his rebound relationship, but only time will tell. So, in the mean time, keep your eyes open and enjoy the ride. Once in a while, a recently divorced man isn’t going to enter a rebound relationship, but is actually ready and you may have found that one guy in a million. Wishing you love, Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love.













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Get tips to start a new, fulfilling and positive relationship after divorce. How to Start a New Relationship Post-Divorce. Though divorce is a difficult process, it can also be immensely freeing.

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For some, the logical next step will be to start dating again. For others, the very idea may seem terrifying or impossible. It is a complicated issue especially if you have kids, but it is still possible and can be fun. To help in making this possible, it is important to let emotions settle in your household and find ways to talk to your kids about it. Seeking a new relationship. It is very important to understand that the process of seeking a new relationship after divorce is different for everyone. Some might be ready to date right away while for others it might take years before they feel ready to even contemplate the thought of it. Just because it happened one way for a friend doesn’t mean it will for you. Pay attention to your own emotions, and ask yourself why you want to start dating again. If you are trying to fill the hole left by your spouse, dating right now won’t be a healthy option. You need to be healthy by yourself before you can be healthy with another person in your life. Here what you need to do before starting a new relationship after divorce: 1. Be ready emotionally. To make sure that seeking a new relationship after divorce is a good experience, make sure that you are emotionally ready to handle this responsibility. You don’t want to be grieving over the loss of your old relationship while you are trying to foster a new one. Don’t be afraid to be picky as you look for someone new to date. You owe it to yourself and your children to make sure that it is someone who will treat you well and give you what you really need. If you are feeling a bit unsure about actually getting back into the dating game, try just making new friends first. Making friends can be fun, and if you find someone you like more than a friend, you will already have a friendship to help make your relationship stronger. 2. Pay attention to your kids. If you have children, you need to pay a lot of attention to their feelings and needs as you begin seeing a new partner. Your kids have their very own grieving process to go through after their parents split up, and you need to respect that. Just because your kids don’t like the idea of you dating doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t do it ever again, but you should give them adequate time to get used to the new way that things work. Children often see a new partner as attempting to replace their other parent, and some of them may still hope that you will get back together with their other parent. Make sure that your children understand that things are final, and give them time to process it. As you move forward, listen to their feelings, and express your own. As far as what you should tell your children about your dating life depends on how old they are. A younger child doesn’t need to know that you are dating until you are more serious about it while a teenager should be given more details because they are sure to notice that something is going on. No matter your children’s age, it is best not to bring your new partner around until you are very sure of them. A divorce is disorienting to children, and they need stability. If you are to break up with your new partner whom your children have grown fond of, this can be almost as painful as when you split with their other parent. Your children probably won’t respond enthusiastically the first time that they meet your new partner. They may express anger and frustration in different forms like acting out in front of your new partner or even giving you the silent treatment. Give them time to adjust, and don’t try to force them into situations they are uncomfortable with that involve your new partner. You can require them to be respectful to your new partner, but you can’t require them to like your new partner. 3. Be honest and direct with communication. Honesty and openness are the fuel for trust, be direct while communicating with your partner. Be open about your expectations, what you wish from this relationship or share any other concerns that you may have. It is important to establish this right at the beginning of the relationship as it paves the way for a solid relationship. Remember, openness and honesty is the lifeblood of any relationship. While starting a new relationship after divorce is often a very sensitive process, you can still enjoy yourself. Make sure that you aren’t moving on because people expect you to or because you think you should be. Rather, do it you want to and you’re ready to. Don’t rush your new relationship, and all the while, make sure to take care of yourself. If you have children, keep them in mind and give them time to become accustomed to this new person in your life. Remember that this is your choice and your life, make sure that you are ready, and make it a good experience. On another note, here are 3 things to completely avoid during the dating process: 1. Do not think that all men/ women are like your ex. Trusting a new person takes time, especially after you’ve been hurt by your ex. Yet, if you hold on to that distrust, you will destroy your chance of finding someone new. Learn to look at the new man/woman as an individual. Notice how different, kind, attentive they are towards you. Appreciate them for their unique qualities. If you still face trust issues, you could consider professional counseling or other methods such as the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), which involves tapping on acupressure points. Be conscious of your issues and don’t be afraid to seek help. 2. Do not hold on to baggage. This one’s hard but not impossible. After all, we are what our experiences make us. But holding onto baggage never helped anyone. If only, it hinders our own progress and often makes us bitter about various things. Learn ways that will help you release the baggage, have an internal dialogue with yourself about what’s holding you back. Also, realize your own past errors in your marriage, take accountability and learn from them. 3. Be open to new possibilities. After thinking about everything, you’ve finally reached a place where you want to date. You may be doing so hesitatingly or may have your own apprehensions, which is normal, but be open to new possibilities. If nothing, you may just find a new friend. Remember every date does have to culminate into a relationship.













How to meet a new partner after divorce

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Besides visiting singles bars, getting introductions from friends, and meeting women on dating sites, consider less common locations for meeting women like libraries, coffee... How to Meet Women After a Divorce. This article was co-authored by Joshua Pompey.

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Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert with over 10 years of helping people navigate the online dating world. Joshua has run his own relationship consulting business since 2009 at a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world. There are 16 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been viewed 71,182 times. Meeting women after a divorce is easier than most men think. Besides visiting singles bars, getting introductions from friends, and meeting women on dating sites, consider less common locations for meeting women like libraries, coffee shops, and sporting venues. But before you start dating again, remember: your relationship does not define you. Don't date after your divorce until you feel comfortable with yourself and your emotional situation.

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Answer: yes, but be careful... Dating during divorce. For the newly single the thought of “starting again” in a new relationship can be a very daunting one, and we often find ourselves being asked about the dos and don’ts of dating, or starting new relationships, whilst we are still helping clients through their divorce or separation.

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Clearly there is no one-size-fits-all advice, and many would question the wisdom of divorce lawyers dispensing dating tips, but as it is something we are often asked about, we thought a few general pointers might help. For those who feel ready, dating while going through divorce can help you cope with loneliness, a need for comfort, and low self-esteem. However, as separation can be a very sensitive time, discretion is often a good idea. Although technically there are few legal reasons why you shouldn’t date, we often find that new relationships can act as emotional flashpoints during the divorce process which can throw boulders into the path of smooth progress to getting financial and children arrangements sorted out. There is little to be gained from announcing to the world that you are dating while matters are not yet settled. The fact of a new relationship’s existence can be very provocative and it is not unknown for negotiations that have been going well to be derailed by the discovery of one spouse’s romantic liaisons. You need to be aware that a new relationship can give your spouse a ground for divorce which might not have otherwise been available. As we mentioned in our blog on divorce myths, a sexual relationship with someone other than your husband/wife is still adultery even if you have technically separated. It is an unfortunate truth that in this technological age, suspicious or jealous spouses or other family members can (and do) hack, bug and snoop into computers, phones and emails, looking for evidence of a new relationship. (And don’t get us started on the dangers of facebook!) The information might be useful for them emotionally, perhaps to prove that infidelity was the real cause of a relationship ending, or they may be looking perhaps to find out information about spending. Sensible precautions with regards to electronic privacy are to be recommended. There are rules on what sort of information obtained through dubious means lawyers can see, so if in doubt, speak to us about this, and be aware that if you do go snooping on a partner or former partner, it may come back to haunt you. If you have children, it is always difficult to know what and when to tell them about a new relationship. Different children will react differently, and a lot will depend upon their age and degree of maturity. You will know your children best of all, but it is important not to underestimate the effect of a separation on them, and the time it will take them to work things through in their mind. Any proposed introductions of a new partner must be handled sensitively. If your spouse is supportive and you have managed to maintain good lines of communication with them, it can be helpful to discuss how to handle introducing new partners to the children before any new partners arrive on the scene! This isn’t always feasible, but if the children are unsettled, angry, nervous or upset by the separation, then it may be better left for a bit. If you are in any doubt about how your children will react to meeting your new partner, then it’s probably better to delay a new introduction for a while. Working together with your ex-spouse as co-parents is something you will have to do for many years to come. Counselling for both of you, together or separately, can be a great help to navigate the potential minefield of new relationships and their impact on the children, or you could work out some ground rules together with the assistance of a family mediator. Many people find that it becomes easier to talk constructively when there’s an impartial third party in the room. We would also suggest that it is only worth risking the fall-out from introducing a new partner to your children when you are sure the relationship will last. Obviously it is impossible to be 100% certain about the future of relationships, but it is worth avoiding multiple repetitions of the tricky exercise of introducing a new partner to your children. Children can be unsettled by repeated introductions their parents’ girlfriends or boyfriends, whom they may consider to be their potential step-parents. Serious new relationships can also impact upon financial negotiations and settlements. During the proceedings you will be asked about your intentions with regard to cohabiting or remarrying. You must answer honestly, and if you do intend to set up home with your new partner, their financial situation will become relevant to your case. Even if you are living under a separate roof from your new partner, if you share each other’s households this could be construed as living together, which could affect the way the court looks at what you need financially for the future. If in doubt, have a word with us about it. Likewise it is not a good idea to mix finances with your new partner whilst you are sorting out your divorce. It’s best to keep everything separate until the dust has settled. For many people, divorce is about one door closing and a lot of other doors opening up. It is possible to achieve real happiness by finding a new partner after divorce, and we’ve seen this happen many times. It’s just wise to have an idea of the pros and cons of doing so before the divorce is final, so that you’re fully informed of what the consequences might be. It needn’t stop you having fun, and we really hope you do!













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Learn more about why this is a real thing in relationships, and what the signs and symptoms are. The Rebound Relationship: Deep Dive. Have you recently entered into a relationship that you're starting to suspect is on the rebound?

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Finding out you're in a rebound relationship isn't the worst thing in the world. It can happen to any of us. If you feel like you're in a rebound relationship (and you're looking for answers and next steps), keep reading to learn the definition of a rebound relationship, rebound relationship stages, and to answer burning questions like Does a rebound relationship last?" and "What is a rebound relationship?” In this article, we provide insight into how people find themselves entangled in rebound relationships, and what steps to take when you find yourself on the rebound. Let's start with a rebound relationship definition. This website is owned and operated by BetterHelp, who receives all fees associated with the platform. What Is A Rebound Relationship? An empirical research study conducted by Brumbaugh and Fraley defines a rebound relationship as "A relationship initiated shortly after a romantic breakup - before the feelings about the former relationship have been resolved." We'll discuss rebound relationship signs later in the article. Simply stated, a rebound relationship is one that isn't expected to last or grow beyond its current state. In most cases of rebound relationships, one partner is clear that the relationship isn't ever going to go anywhere - yet they participate in the relationship anyway to avoid feeling the pain of grief and loss from their recent breakup. People who knowingly enter into rebound relationships typically know that they aren't fully invested in their new relationships and that the relationship is likely to be temporary. This is because they haven't healed over their previous relationship and may even secretly desire to be back in the old situation. The new partner may be completely unaware of the rebounder's intentions and can enter a relationship expecting to build a lasting and healthy relationship with their new partner - completely missing the fact that their new partner has other intentions. In other cases, it may be established beforehand among both parties that the relationship will not be long-term, or the person on the “rebound” may not yet fully realize that they are in a rebound relationship and not truly ready to date. Does A Rebound Relationship Last? People may enter into rebound relationships too quickly to avoid feeling the pain and loss of their recent breakup. This can lead to compounding emotional issues as the person now has to deal with lingering feelings from their past relationships and issues that are likely evolving in their current relationship. The relationship is an emotionally convenient relationship that is superficial as the primary goal of the rebounding partner is to escape negative feelings of grief and loss rather than investing themselves in building a healthy emotional relationship. In other words, the chances of this relationship going the long-haul are very slim. Rebound relationships are typically emotionally imbalanced. What this means is that while one partner may be completely invested in building a long-lasting relationship, the other party typically is not, either because they are not interested in doing so or they are unable to do so while old wounds are still healing. They may have no intention of doing the work to build a lasting relationship with someone new because they haven't finished dealing with their issues, concerns, or grief over the old relationship. On the other hand, they may try to do the work to make the rebound relationship last, but to little avail as they haven’t given themselves the time and space to properly get over their last relationship. Either way, there's not much hope for a relationship that starts with this kind of imbalance to blossom into anything more. Rebound Relationship Signs. Before you found yourself in a rebound relationship, there may have been a few key signs that you missed. Oftentimes, at the beginning of a new relationship, we're all on our best behavior, so we don't see (or acknowledge) glaring red flags that are indicating that our relationship is heading in the wrong direction. The following are four signs that you're about to enter or are already in the middle of a rebound relationship: You or your partner only contact each other when you're feeling down and don't seem to have anything in common outside of your mutual gripes. Most or all of your dates are spent at home. You never have conversations about your or your partner's likes, dislikes, goals, plans, or future. When you do have conversations, if you or your partner is mostly speaking in terms of "I" instead of "we," this is a sign that they may not see you as an equal partner in the relationship. 4 Rebound: The Stages. While the path of all rebounded relationships isn't always the same, these short-term relationships often follow a pattern. People who are in rebound relationships can be in them for varying lengths of time. While one couple may go through the rebound relationship stages in a matter of days or weeks - it may take others months or even years to realize that they've been in a rebound relationship. The following are four stages that couples tend to cycle through during a rebound relationship, though there can be as many as five stages. 1. The Honeymoon Stage - When people first enter into a rebound relationship, they may find themselves in the "honeymoon stage," where everything seems perfect and there aren't any arguments or disagreements. In this stage, both parties in the relationship are seeing their new partner as they want them to be, rather than as they are. This is especially true in the case of the rebounding party whose ultimate goal at this point is to escape the pain of their recent breakup. 2. Discontentment Or Confusion Stage – Your rose-colored glasses may have slipped off, and you're starting to realize that something with your new relationship is a bit "off." Maybe you've begun to notice that after a few weeks of dating your relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere. You and your partner don't go out on real dates, and you haven't met any of the "friends" and family you keep hearing about. You're starting to feel uncomfortable and ready to get to the bottom of what's causing you to feel this way. 3. Discovery Or Realization Stage - You've stepped back and taken an honest look at your relationship. You realize that neither you nor your partner are meeting each other's needs, and outside of just "hanging out" this doesn't feel like a relationship at all. This is the point at which you may recognize that you’re in a rebound relationship. 4. Action Or Decision Stage - Now that you've figured out why you've been feeling like a third party in your relationship, it's time to decide what you're going to do about it. This is the stage when most rebound relationships end, as one of the people realizes that there was never a real investment into the relationship in the first place. Some brave couples continue beyond this point and try to resolve the issues to "save" their new relationship.













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5 Common Mistakes Men Make After Divorce. Adapting to life after divorce is hard for guys under the best of circumstances. But you can make it easier on yourself, your ex, and your children if you avoid some of the most common mistakes.

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1. Dating Too Soon. Too many men seek out a new relationship before the dust has settled on their divorce, says psychologist Sam J. Buser, PhD, coauthor of The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce . They rush into new relationships -- and often into new marriages -- within the first year. That's no doubt the biggest mistake," says Buser, who is based in Houston. Buser says that men often jump into dating because they're lonely, vulnerable, and sad, and they're looking for someone to help them feel better. "The relationships they start do not often work out in the long run," he says. "I advise my patients to wait at least two years. I've never had a man take me up on that advice, but I do try to slow them down." He also advises men to date casually at first. "Tell the woman you've just been through a tough divorce and that you're not ready for a committed relationship," he suggests. "Acknowledge that it is not the right time for that." 2. Isolating Yourself. After a divorce, it's easy for guys to let themselves become isolated, especially if the ex gets custody of the kids. That's another big mistake. It can worsen feelings of depression, guilt, and loneliness, a potentially dangerous mix. Divorced men are twice as likely to commit suicide as married men. Divorced men are also more prone to alcohol problems, so be careful of starting down that road. "You don't have to drink every day to have a problem," Buser says. "Drinking a six pack is a binge." Buser's advice: Connect with other guys. Call up old friends, join a softball team, a club, or a professional association. "Expand your social and professional network to avoid isolation." He also says that the aftermath of a divorce is great time to go back to school. It keeps you active, stimulates your mind, potentially advances your career, and gets you out of the house. 3. Introducing Your New Partner to Your Kids Too Soon. You've met someone new. You're excited and happy. Good for you. Just don't make the mistake of expecting your kids to be upbeat about it. "The last thing the kids want to see is parents getting involved with someone else," says Gordon E. Finley, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in issues facing divorced men and an emeritus professor of psychology at Florida International University in Miami. "They are going to be unhappy. Date when you feel ready, but leave the kids out of it." Buser agrees. "Focus on the other adult when starting a relationship," he says. "She can meet the kids when you know you are serious." 4. Giving In to Hostility. Don't make the mistake of continuing to fight with your ex, especially if children are involved. "You don't want to be seen as an enemy or an antagonist but as a co-parent," says Arizona State University professor emeritus of psychology Sanford L. Braver, PhD. "I'm not saying that that will be easy, but everybody will be better off." Braver, co-author of Divorced Dads: Shattering the Myths , recommends that men consider conflict and anger management classes. In his research, he's found that when dads learn how to put compromises before conflict and competition, both the kids and the parents do better. "Learn to manage as well as you can from the middle ground," says Braver. "Diplomacy and negotiating skills are key." Being civil with your ex may encourage more flexibility in terms of custody, and potentially more time with your kids. "If divorced spouses have a working relationship, they can agree to informally bypass some stipulations," Finley says. "Workloads go up and down, schedules can shift, and you want some way to take that into account." 5. Backing Off From Parenting. If you're a dad, divorce doesn't change that. Your child still needs you as a father, not as a visitor. "That should be the most important thing from the man's point of view: His child wants him and his child needs him," Finley says. "Maintaining the relationship is important for your child's developmental outcome: social, emotional, and educational." Finley warns against becoming what he calls a "Disneyland dad," who acts as if his role is to show up on weekends and show the kids a good time. "That's not good for you or your kids," Finley says. "Help them with their homework. Talk about what's on their minds." Before divorce, some dads, Buser says, make the mistake of yielding much of their parenting role to their partners. There's a possible silver lining to divorce if they put in the work, however. "Lots of guys have never had experience as the primary caregiver, and they don't know what to do and have trouble adapting," Buser says. "But divorce gives them an opportunity, when they are with their kids, to be a full-time parent for the first time. They often become better fathers after divorce." Show Sources. Sam J. Buser, PhD, psychologist, Houston. Gordon E. 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