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| The hardest year of my life.... |
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Posted by: TryingtoRise - 11-09-2018, 05:31 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Long read about a single mom of three...
Everyone has bad days. Weeks, sometimes even months. For me, this year has been the most heart wrenching, trying, and depressing year of my life.
Last October I was knocked out by my abusive BiPolar boyfriend (whom I have children with, and stayed with because I believed I could help his disease).
In January, he told me that he had cheated the entire 6 years we were together (complete with pics and very detailed explations). He also began torturing me on social media, email and texts and publicly dissecting my body and comparing me to other women he had slept with all over my Facebook and Instagram. The torturing continued until the end of February, which put me in a horrible depression that killed my kids to see.
March was a good month and I finally starting feeling great about myself and my new Real Estate career(I started in Jan).
April 3: I received the call that my father had passed very very unexpectedly.He was only 51and we had planned to use this year to strengthen our relationship. We have had some disagreements in our past and we wanted this year to be the start of our new closeness. He had planned to visits to see me this summer. He never got that chance.
Two weeks later I totalled my car, which was the only posession that I owned of my own. It was a blow i didn't see coming. One reason was probably because it was my first real accident, and it took my transportation.
I met someone at the end of that month though, who made me want a relationship again, and I hoped for better days.
The next few months my phone (with my dad's pictures of his service, and years of texts exchanged ) was destroyed by my 2 year old who threw it in the toilet. My middle child also decided to give my, very long and hard to grow hair, a very short bang as a bonus that same month.
And I bet you can't believe there's more ....
I lost my job. I couldn't get out of bed. I couldn't breathe without the pain burning me. It was a very hard thing for me bc I exploded with success my first 4 months and then my dad's death halted it all.
Then I found out that my new boyfriend, who had moved in by then.... Cheated. Follow that by discovering my best friend had been stealing money from me since my dad's death, and cleaned out my account the day before my birthday. My first without my dad, and I was saving money so I could attempt to get out and smile. I spent the day and night crying in my bed instead.
October came and I still hadn't figured out my career or even a job and my lease was up. My abusive ex's dad offered my kids and I a place to go. The place that I spent 6 years going through hell with his son and had been eventually knocked out. I had no choice.
We've been here for three weeks, and even though I started feeling like myself again... I was having problems dealing with my ex's dad's treatment toward me, triggering the PTSD i now have, from his son.
Tonight it came to a head. After being treated the same is son treated me (all day!!), My body began to tremble like it's never done, and I ended up screaming. I have to be out with my kids tomorrow.
I have no money right now, and no car to move my things, and absolutely no where to go. My entire family is in another state and my daughter can't go with if I leave.... So I've been stuck here alone for awhile.
I just need money to cover a down payment (first&last month rent/etc) for a place for my 3 beautiful babies, and myself. I will also need a deposit for electricity, and money to rent a truck to move us.
It's embarrassing to ask people I don't know to help me.... But I have never been so low, and so completely out of options and time. I'm ready to start succeeding again, but I can't if every chance for a breath... Im pulled under deeper.
Honestly, absolutely anything will help. Thank you for just reading this long thing.
I hope you never find yourself so low that you think the world has gone black. It's heartbreaking.
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| Please help me!!! Thank you very much. |
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Posted by: becktan - 11-08-2018, 01:31 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hello there, I am Beck 34 years old. I have never been to this site and not sure if it works. This time i have no choice but look for help due to my bad financial situation. Currently i am $20,000 in debt with high interest loan and i am 2 months behind on bills. I tried to get loan from private lenders to pay off my bills but it turned out to be a scam. I did not get the loan from them after i paid for the deposit requested by them. They became uncontactable with my deposit paid to them and it caused my situation to get worse. I am not sure if this site really works but I just hope that it does and someone kind can help me out of this difficult and stressful situation. I am bringing money in every month but it all go to the high interest loan and i am unable to keep up with the debt and bills. Thank you those who take the time to read my message. I really hope that someone kind can help me get over this financial hardship.
Any amount would be greatly appreciated. Every dollar is important to me. Thank you in advance.
paypal.me/becktan
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| Money for food |
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Posted by: DreamGoddessxx - 11-08-2018, 07:06 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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For the past 2 weeks, i haven't eaten anything. I recently came from the hospital because of it, the only reason I'm able to function is because i drink a lot of water. I used to work as a nanny but after i lost my baby, i became severely depressed which caused me to lose my job.Currently doing applications but i need help now. I don't have anyone in my life to help me and i don't know what else to do. I'm losing weight excessively, I'm at 100 pounds right now and I'm 24. So please, if you can help, I'd appreciate it.. Thank you
Cashapp: $fantasyproject2
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| Sick fiance |
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Posted by: Trying too - 11-08-2018, 07:06 AM - Forum: My Request for Help
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My fiance and I have had a rough year. He got sick in July of last year and it has been down hill since. We moved into our new home April 2 of this year and April 11 he was taken by ambulance to the hospital as he was so sick that his body went septic and he almost died on me. Now here we are in Nov. and he just had a surgery that has put him down for 4 to 6 months. Any help would be appreciated.
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| Help! |
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Posted by: Cooliocat - 11-07-2018, 02:15 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hello, my name is Chantel and I have just moved in with my boyfriend and I have just started learning animal care but I need to complete my online course. I need a laptop but I can't afford one and neither can my boyfriend, please help me out.
paypal.me/CHall328
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| Please help me get this job |
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Posted by: Brifoshizzle - 11-05-2018, 09:44 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hi everybody, my name is Brianna and I’m a college student who lost her job last month. I’ve been trying to work for my local hospital for two years but it’s hard when you don’t have an In. Recently I got a friend to vouch for me and get my application pulled for my dream position within the hospital. I was very excited and told I’d receive a phone call today to set up an interview. To my surprise i recieved no call only to find out my cell provider cut off service to my phone. Therefore I can’t recieve calls or make calls. My balance I owe to get service turned back on is $465.92. If I can get service back I will have a fair chance again. Please, I will pay you back when I secure this job. I have no family out here. You are my only hope. Please.
https://cash.me/app/RBNLMVS
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| Single mom in need of a little help |
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Posted by: SingleMomOf2 - 11-05-2018, 08:13 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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Hello, I am new to this and not really sure about what else to do. I am a single mom of two beautiful little boys, I work full-time and I am currently in college to be an EMT. My car broke down on me about three months ago, I am having to pay for Ubers to get everywhere, which is very costly with the amount of running around I have to do daily. My mom found me a reliable car from a family friend for $500, but as bad as it sounds I can't afford to save money towards getting it. Out of the $800 I need to get it legal and all, I have only been able to save $127 due to having to pay rent, pay for Ubers, clothes, food, a babysitter and other essentials. Anything helps and I will forever be grateful. Thank you so much. Cash.me/$CDFL0807
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| Looking for a blessing |
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Posted by: HLH81818 - 11-05-2018, 06:36 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I'll try to keep this simple, I'm in need of help. I have a family, married with 4 kids and currently struggling. I was recently rear ended and lost my vehicle. I drive for Uber/Lyft and I haven't been able to drive this month due to losing my car. My account is overdrafted. I'm going to lose my car insurance and my phone will be shut off if I dont get this taken care of...my husband works and I work a part time job as well but with 4 kids to feed...its been a struggle. I'm not even sure how we will get through Christmas...if you can help at all, any little bit, we appreciate it. Paypal- https://www.paypal.me/heidip728
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| Looking for a blessing right now |
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Posted by: TTK544 - 11-05-2018, 06:09 PM - Forum: My Request for Help
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I’m usually the person who always helping others but now I’m in need of a helping hand. This last month been overwhelming from student loans, cut hours from work, car troubles, and now medical bills ??♂️....it’s very stressful. I don’t want to ask for much just enough to keep gas in my car so I can work harder to get back standing tall. I would appreciate anything, donations, gratitude, etc.. Thank you!??
CashApp: $TScrews
cash.me/$TScrews
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